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The Little Things That Make You Feel Like Yourself Before the Wedding For Your Bridal Boudoir Photos

 

Before the wedding comes, some brides choose to book bridal boudoir photos in Philadelphia or NYC. The experience is entirely up to you. It can mark an important milestone, give you a boost of confidence, preserve the lead up to your wedding in an intimate way, or become an album gift for yourself, your partner, or both.


To be clear, this experience is for you whether or not a gift is involved.

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The little things that elevate your photos



Preparing for your bridal boudoir session matters just as much as preparing for the wedding, only without the stress and pressure of the day itself. Think of it as one more spa day. You leave feeling more like yourself, and more ready for what's ahead.


To get the best photos, you want to look and feel your best. That starts with your skin, your nails, professional hair and makeup, and the wardrobe. A skincare routine made for your skin type matters, even a simple one. So does staying hydrated. Water plays a bigger role in how your skin looks than most people expect.


Keep your nails elegant. They should be an extension of you, never the thing that steals the spotlight. Popular choices for bridal boudoir sessions mirror what brides pick for the wedding: shades of nude, a classic white French, or an ombre French. If polish isn't your thing, healthy, clean nails trimmed to the same length look just as polished.


When it's time for hair and makeup, let yourself be pampered. Have a pro take care of you and bring out your best features. Whether you want full glam or a soft, natural look, it's your story to tell. Aim for something close to the look you're planning for the wedding. If you're short on time, or still searching for a team, your trial session can double as your boudoir session look.


We can't tell the whole story without talking about wardrobe. I always suggest a robe, silk or lace, that complements both your lingerie and your wedding dress. There are a few ways to play with it. If you book well in advance, the lingerie can be the set you wear on the wedding day, or pack for the honeymoon. If you're gifting an album on the wedding day, it becomes a preview of what has passed and what is still to come. Another element I love is the wedding dress itself. It plays into the morning you'll be getting ready, and it gives your partner a sneak peek of what they'll see walking down the aisle.

Two ways to add a gift



If you plan to turn your images into a gift, there are two ways I love to recommend. Keep in mind that editing your photos and creating a finished, physical album both take time.


Option one: book at least 10 weeks before the wedding. The album arrives as a surprise for your partner on the wedding day. That timeline gives you the anticipation, and it leaves room to design and create the album. Many brides hand it over while they're getting ready.


Option two: do your session on the wedding day. Maybe you're short on time, or you realized only a few weeks out that you want a bridal boudoir session. This one is for you. The photos stay a secret. One year later, the album becomes your anniversary gift. It's also a great fit for destination weddings. If I'm your photographer, we can even do the session the day before, depending on how your itinerary allows. That's something we'd plan together with your wedding planner.

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Ready to plan your bridal boudoir session?


Whether you want a quiet morning that belongs only to you, a surprise for your groom, or an anniversary gift a year from now, I'd love to help you shape it. Sessions are available in Philadelphia and NYC.


Tell me your wedding date and what you're picturing, and we'll build the timeline backwards from there.